Showing posts with label travel. Show all posts
Showing posts with label travel. Show all posts

Monday, May 28, 2012

It's been a while...

Well, I've been reminded by a few people that I haven't been blogging much lately. It is true. It's been such a beautiful spring for months now (literarily since January) and we've worked hard, traveled a bit for work or just gone on little weekend jaunts. It's been a little hard to get on the computer when I've got the urge to be out and about.

We've had a few miracles in the past few months and a few disappointments. That is life, right?

But, here are a few moments to share along the way. I'm promising myself to get back on here (after June) to keep a better record of my thoughts and such. Luckily, the journal is up to date and the blog has only suffered. Both have one reader. (-:

Us at Downtown Disney on Valentine's Day. We both went to the same conference. I had to speak at it one day, but it left the other days pretty flexible.

Downtown Disney - practicing my night photography

So awesome to see Sea World

Celebrating my man's birthday at the dinner theater/josting event. Fun to do at least once!

Enjoying some Georgetown Cupcakes. Line was only 15 minutes!

Cherry Blossoms - a week or two before the festival they bloomed

Paul's pasteries in downtown DC

Two great friends - Harrison and Pam - Eastern Market visit to remember old times

National Capital - beautiful spring flowers

The man loves french food - so to Bethesda we go!

Love the people in the DC area, especially when they dress in traditional attire while taking pictures with iPads.

Visit to Gettyburg where I noticed the statue was using an iPad. Yes, I was grateful for the real historical events that took place there as well. (-: We love driving to Gettyburg to walk, think and pray.

Two of my favorite little people - we pretend we are their aunt and uncle.

Attending Scot's graduation. Congrats on medical school! George Washington University had their commencement on the National Mall and had Bryan Williams (NBC) as the speaker. Great event and speech. We'll miss Scot, Denisse and their kids (above).

Canadian Geese live ALL over this part of town. I got to take a walk with them one day after work. I lead them right out of the neighborhood. Haaa.

Youth Camp Counselor training - retreat this weekend to teach the YW leadership skills

YW Camp Retreat - this has been what has kept me busy about 5-10 hours a week for the last two months.

Rolling Thunder meets LDS temple - awesome

After not ironing for a couple of years (seriously), I've held back shirts from the dry cleaner the last few weeks and cleaned/ironed them myself. It's been a satisfying break from all my computer work.

Heard about this idea in Relief Society - make a link chain for something you are preparing for or that is stressing you out. I actually have some really long chains elsewhere, but these are for June 2012. I have to speak at five conference this next month and go to Young Women's Camp! A bit stressed, but will get through it!

I created a manual out of all the papers we kept getting for camp! So, hopefully it simplified it down for the girls. We'll see.
Always great to see long time friends. Here is one of my favorite mission companions and her family when they visited DC this spring.
We have a winner! We had a logo contest for Nudge Village and a great graphic artist submitted and entry that I loved (and apparently so did most everyone else). Looking forward to building out this site more. Just been a bit sidetracked lately.


Monday, July 26, 2010

Life's a Beach - details and horizons

After a long week of "working until midnight" days, I decided to take a little jaunt by myself to the shores at the mouth of the Chesapeake Bay in Maryland.

Like many drives around the Mid-Atlantic, most of the road is accompanied by forest after forest of trees, with a few breaks to see what lies beyond. Small towns, farmland, ponds, oceans? Who knows with all these trees.

But, off I went away from DC.

It is amazing what 20 miles outside of DC can do - relaxation begins to come back, as well as the shock that people still live in trailers and there are easterners that own four wheeler bikes.

Shame on me for becoming a "city-folk."

This is true America right outside of the granite halls of "justice" and "peace."

American flags, old trucks, fish/bait shops, and dirty old convenience stores lined the way. All good scenery, but the beach beckoned.

Without planning, I didn't have a particular destination in mind. That is, until I looked at the map and saw "Point Lookout State Park" listed on the bottom tip of the peninsula.

The tip of the peninsula ensured that I would be in that place nearest to Atlantic Ocean.


And, there it is! Where an old military hospital used to stand, one remaining building, a whole lot of rocks and a few stray fishermen - Point Lookout at the edge of the peninsula.

Since the beach was a ways off, and cluttered with too many people, I took to these rocks.



It was a bit hot - like over 100 degrees - and I had to wear my white hat to wart off the extra rays beating down and making me sweat. Yes, sweating while standing in a sea breeze.



However, it forced me into a few interesting observations.

First, the importance of viewing the horizon and seeing "the big picture."


(No, it isn't bad photography. The water isn't really a pretty color and the sky was a bit hazy)

Secondly, the importance of looking a bit closer.


(All the rocks had shells nestled up between them)

Third, how looking closer opens the mind. The realization that if there were a few shells, there must be more and perhaps some that I'd like to take home.



So, I walked further - near the guys that were fishing.

And, I found a special little spot. A tiny beach just for people like me - wanting alone time with the water, sand, heavens and breeze.



Looking closer, I started to find my shells.


Is it just me or are shells glorious when you pick them up and then a little less so when you get them home? Even so, I feel like a little girl whenever I pick up a shell - especially if I turn it over and it is extra shiny or contains an unusual array of colors.



My little treasures had to be put on display before I made my final selection from nature.

And, even more fun than swimming in the ocean is walking along it dipping the toes in the water as the sometimes tiny waves lap at the feet.



So many little details that I didn't see from a distance to be enjoyed.

And yet, so many little details two feet away that could cause problems.



Ah, these relaxing times to re-think life, ponder the grander of the heavens and the scariness of the ocean's depths. To see the horizons and see the details. All of the details. Up above and down below. To feel the details in the wind, the sand, the heat, the jellyfish, the shells, the worn down tree branches and the water.

Details and horizons all wrapped up into one solitary experience.



I say life's a beach - horizons and details.

And, if God can put that much effort and care into a little beach, just think about what He can do for me or you.

Next road trip - finding out His details for me.

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Costs of the Single Life

Some people think that we single people have it easy. For some reason we have "more time" than others. Hmmm. I'm on the 24 hour schedule, how about you?

After a few of these types of these conversations, thought I'd clear a few things up in case there is any confusion. I realize that I'm a little snippy about this, but sometimes it is ok to be, right?

Here's the clear up:

  • Time - I have 24 hours. In that 24 hours I have to clean, work, do errands, sleep, deal with "issues," pay bills, finish more work, update to do list (consisting of 2-3 lists on the computer, iPhone, scrap paper, or notebook depending upon where and when I get the to do), and oh ....eat, exercise, and take care of myself when I am sick. This is fairly typical of all people regardless of marital status.

  • Mortgage - I pay a mortgage. It doesn't matter if there is one person or five people in this house, the mortgage costs the same. Oh, and let's not forget condo fee, homeowners association fees, property taxes, and homeowners insurance.

  • Utilities - I still have to use the appliances and all kinds of washer machines.

  • Car - insurance, maintenance, gas.

  • Phone - I don't have a home phone, but I do have a cell phone that has to have a data plan and plenty of minutes for self (ok, not much for me), but for a lot for work conference calls.

  • Cable and Internet connections - cost the same regardless of how many people are in the house. Gadget girl must be connected.

  • Food - I'm on the road early and so I often buy food at work. It's actually healthier that way. Plus, if I buy too much fresh food, it goes to waste. If I buy too small, it's actually more expensive. I use about the same as a family. I've seen my nieces and nephews - kids under eight years old eat as much as little birds.

  • Travel and Money - People seem to think that we single people have more money (and time) to travel. See "mortgage" and other expenses above. Seriously, I do like to travel, but have had to seriously curb the desire the last few years. Looking back, I should have taken the trips and bagged the 401k. I've lost enough to travel the world twice and do so while taking six months off work. I wanted to go on a trip to Europe last year with some friends. But, my heat pump broke down and took $5,000 to replace. $5,000 for an object that keeps you warm or cold, but is hidden and has no aesthetic value.
  • Travel and Time - I have 500 vacation and sick hours saved up at work. That means I haven't taken them. It stresses me out even thinking of trying to catch up after taking a long vacation. I took a 10 day trip to France a couple of years ago and I had to prepare information for all the teams for three weeks in advanced and inform everyone who to contact in my absence. Luckily, I've been in the job longer now and have set up a blog, wiki, content management area, and electronic contact sheet so it would have far less impact if I'm out (which is the ultimate goal - not needing me much at all).

  • Cleaning - my house gets dirty too. Sitting in traffic to and from work (and of course work in between all of that) gets a little tiring. I've become slothful in the dish washing department. My job now is to create the least mess possible so I don't have to expend energy cleaning up later. Plus, I've gained a few pounds these past few years - walking takes precedence over cleaning.

  • Saturday - A primary song from church goes something like "Saturday is a special day, it's the day we get ready for Sunday." Sometimes I feel like it should be "Saturday is a special day, it's the only day I don't have to show up or report to anyone." Saturday has officially become my favorite day of the week and I purposely keep my limited social life limited more on this day.
  • Sleep - Up until a few years ago, I never wanted to sleep. I would burn both ends of the candle and would be fine. I'd pull all nighters regularly. Now, no can do. I get about 4-5 hours of sleep a night if I'm lucky and I want more. Stress, sinuses, and thinking about big ideas keep me up.

Ok, somehow this post strayed from "costs" to "time" issues or something. Either way, I wanted to document it for personal reference. Perhaps when I am married I will look back and laugh at this and think "how naive" and long for the good ole days where I could do whatever I wanted.

Time will tell. Now I'm burning the late end of the candle writing this entry which, as stated above, is no longer something I can pull off.

Good-night!

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